It begins...
A friend recently forwarded an email to me titled "The Invisible Mother," a short essay comparing the tireless and often thankless job of a mother to the builders of Europe's great cathedrals. Both give their whole lives for a work they will never see finished, both make sacrifices and expect no credit, and both are fueled in their passion by the faith that the eyes of God see every detail. The writer of the essay was inspired by the thought that our endless efforts in motherhood, invisible as they may seem, are worth it and can make an enriching life.
For many of us, the way we choose to hold our invisibility at bay is by creating something tangible. For me, my days often end with knitting - my love of fiber and the need to do something relaxing end up producing something I can hold and look at. Nobody will know how many times I swept under the high chair that day, or how many toys I picked up, or how many times I tried to coax a "please" or "more" or "sorry" out of my 5 year old. But a darling, handmade infant hat? That you can see.
I start new projects every day, and my 10 year old does the same. In this process of creating (and yes, often not finishing our projects!) we connect with each other and a bigger picture of ourselves in the process. My plan for this blog is to share the projects that excite me and bring some accessible proof of my existence in this invisible world of mothering!
So, this blog is dedicated to the mothers out there whose days are filled with the minutia of tasks that build our children and our families. I often tell people that I haven't decided what I want to be when I grow up. But for now, I am the builder of a great cathedral. With every shoelace tied, lunch packed, and forehead kissed, I build.
And I can hardly wait to create something new...
Saturday, February 12, 2011
A Couple of Dolls
She pulled out her sewing kit and muslin and has been leaving it all over the house for weeks whilst she cooks up her plan. She finished her design yesterday morning, and is ready to dig in.
We made a Hobby Lobby run yesterday for a different project, and while we were there I told her I had fabric remnants at home we could use to design her doll's dress and bonnet. She asked what we would use for the doll's body, and I said I assumed we'd use the muslin from her sewing basket. She got very serious, and with her most adult voice said, "Actually, Mommy, I had envisioned her having dark brown skin." Okey dokey! Luckily the cotton broadcloth was on sale, and I let her pick out the brown she wanted.Very happy camper.
This morning we pulled out the remnants and she chose the yarn (oh dear, it's BRIGHT orange) for the hair, and pulled two blue buttons for eyes. With Brad knee-deep in taxes and Brynn entertained by her "Signing Time" video, Rowan and I spread out on the kitchen table and got to work.
First we used cardboard to sketch a doll shape, remembering to leave extra for the seaming. I traced half the doll on paper, cut it out, then flipped it over to trace the perfectly symmetrical other half. We cut out the doll pattern, held it over the brown fabric and cut that baby out. (Rowan did about half the cutting, but my big fabric scissors hurt her hand.) She was SO happy with the cut fabric she asked if she could hug it for a minute before we went on. Awwww!
Next she sewed on the button eyes. After a few finger pricks I helped out, but she did great on her own!
She designed the mouth and cheeks out of felt, which I mostly sewed on for her, but the few little pink stitches she did were so stinkin' cute!
This evening while I was cleaning up the counter before dinner, Rowan put on the eyelashes, so baby "Grace" was ready to get sewed up. This is where I needed my mommy. We pulled out the sewing machine, pinned Grace's back to her front, and I attempted to sew evenly along her edges. Well...Rowan loves her and that's what counts. Her head is quite lumpy and lopsided LOL! And I'm pretty sure her arms are different lengths. Maybe we can hide that with the orange hair and a long-sleeved dress??
Rowan loved stuffing her with fiberfil, and is working on hand-sewing her bottom seam as I write. She is thrilled she will be able to take Grace to bed tonight, despite the fact that she is bald and naked. Are they a couple of dolls or what!
Friday, February 11, 2011
Crafters Unite
The same day I picked up my writing hat and started this blog, I visited a local jewelry artist show with my friend, Chris, at the Lenexa Community Center. It was so much fun to look around at all the different styles and all the creativity. And I did buy something for myself, which I thought was fitting - new earrings made out of vintage typewriter keys! Totally love them. The artist who made them has created a company called Junque Drawer Studio, and I encourage you to check them out at www.junquedrawerstudio.com. They make all kinds of things out of old game pieces, typewriter keys, bottle caps, and other crazy junk drawer stuff. All the earrings were artfully displayed on vintage playing cards and other random cards, which really made for a cool display.
I've worn the earrings several times this week, and have added some things from the website to my birthday wish list. For those who live in the area, Junque Drawer Studio jewelry can be found at:
Trendz: 151st and Nall
Milk Boutique: 10524 S. Ridgeview, Olathe
Olathe Glass & Home Decor: 510 East Sante Fe, Olathe
They are also opening their own boutique in May at 12070 S. Ridgeview in Olathe. If I find out when the grand opening is, I'll post it.
That's it for now, true believers! (Is that from the old Spiderman cartoon? Can't remember.) Go forth...and make art!
Thursday, February 10, 2011
All Things BFF
The next task was to finish her classmate's valentines. She had about half of them done earlier this week and they turned out darling! It was hard for me to not hover at first, offering to cut hearts out or smooth rough edges (of which there are plenty) and although I reminded her over and over that she needed to make the valentines big enough for me to hot glue the candy to, they kept getting smaller and smaller. Every single valentine has a handwritten "BFF" in the middle. At one point she turned to me and said she wasn't sure she wanted to put BFF on a particular child's valentine. I told her she didn't have to. "Too late," she said. "I already did it in pen."
She is so proud to have them done. Big check off the 7-year old to-do list!
Now it's nap time, and my project this afternoon is to catch up on our family photo album. I've done the hard part - choosing which photos will be included - and have them printed and in hand. Now my task is to sift through my mom's Shutterfly site to make sure I didn't miss anything major. She often takes pictures at times when I forget to - thanks for being my back-up photographer, Mom! You are my BFF!!!!
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Git 'er done
I wrapped 3 birthday gifts yesterday (git 'er wrapped! Oh fine, I'll stop doing that.) Rowan was invited to 3 parties in the span of a week, and I am seriously thankful for my closet gift stash! The gifts are stacked in the dining room, but our "tag and card" drawer came up seriously lacking. We've got some horsey ones that are pretty baby-ish looking, and I felt like I wanted something a bit more girly. I hate to spend money on birthday cards that get looked at for 5 seconds (if even) and then trashed, so *light bulb* (do you hear the Hallelujah chorus in the background?), I can make gift tag cards!
I grabbed my stash of scrap paper bits, a few sheets of white card stock and my cutting tools. GO!
First I cut the cardstock into 3 strips, almost 3" each. I cut each strip into 2, which gives me 6 cards per page. I folded them over, then started digging through paper. I cut my first pretty paper square to be slightly smaller than the white card, then I tried to figure out how to fancy it up. Light bulb, people! If I use skinny scraps, I can cross them over the square like ribbon on a package. (Hal-le-lu....jah!)
At first I was finding the obvious matchy papers, but then I decided to push the boundaries a little and try some different color combos. I had so much fun making the first 12, that I decided to do another 6! As I played with paper, it really started to sink in how difficult it must be for quilters to choose the fabrics for their pieces. To get that just right balance of "go together" and "contrast" it takes quite a bit of hemming and hawing. (Don't ask me what "hawing" really means either.)
So I hemmed and hawed in my clean kitchen, with bits of paper flying this way and that and constructed my oh so cutie gift tags. And yes, another light bulb! My Girl Scouts could totally do this. File that way for the future...
It's Wednesday afternoon, and we've got an hour of chaos between school pick-up and Rowan's ballet class. Wednesday means Brynn has to be in the car for a good chunk of her crankiest time of day, I have to spend an hour in the ballet lobby pulling her away from all the no-no's, nobody eats until late, and mommy usually caves and gets us McDonalds. Which is totally justified tonight (isn't it always?) because Brad is out of town until late and I'm single parenting today! And dude. I totally forgot about the laundry I started...
Tomorrow, I'll git 'er done.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Stupid Mexico
I eventually decided done was done and penned in the outlines with permanent marker. (Of course I did Mexico last and held my breath the whole time, hoping divine intervention would let Mexico simply flow perfectly from my fingertips. Mmmm, not so much.) But, the map is done, the countries where our troop comes from are colored in and labeled, and it's ready for some shiny star stickers to map out our past. But I still squint and make a face at Mexico every time I walk by.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Hugs of Fiber and Fleece
Once I started to knit in earnest, I realized that there are only so many homemade gifts you can make for people before you run out of projects. You can either fill drawers and boxes with finished products no one will ever see, or you can knit for charity. When I first read the book, Knitting for Peace by Betty Christiansen, I felt like I could finally do my part to care for the children of the world. I've made countless sweaters, socks, and hats to be sent far and wide to different charities, and with each item sent out I can take a breath and hope that perhaps one more small life will be affected in a positive way. I will hug all those children with the tiny loops and stitches I knit for them.
"afghans for Afghans" Child's Vest - 2007 |
"Caps for Kids" Hats - 2007 |
A Daisy Hard at Work! |
From the moment I became Rowan's Girl Scout Leader and realized I would be helping the girls earn their light green Daisy petal: Considerate and Caring, I knew I wanted to involve them with Project Linus. The girls had so much fun creating the blankets as part of this important lesson and loved the idea they were helping an unknown child. It was hard for some of them to part with the finished blanket, but I had planned ahead! Each girl got a remnant from the fabric they had chosen to work on. On each remnant I put a label with their name and a little poem I wrote: